TOSH: 1 Muharram

Assalamualaikum

Kalau ikut kalendar Islam, we got married on the 28th Zulhijjah. The reception at Pantai was on the 1st Muharram.

Alhamdulillah, and tidak disangka-sangka kami sudah setahun!!

Kalau ikut kalendar Masihi ni, our anniversary would be on the 2nd Nov.

I must say we are not big with celebrating any events. So for our anniversary, tak plan ape2 pon. Haha.

Yesterday, M went to see his client in Sendayan. I volunteered to drive him and let him sleep during the ride. Lately, he has been really busy with work. Tak sampai hati tengok suami kepenatan (cheh!).

After meeting the client, we went for dinner. Passed by Mydin @ Seremban 2 and we saw lampu yang ade dekat funfair. Hoyeh! Like kids, we excitedly went to check. I hoped there will be bumper cars. M hoped there will be shooting games with great prizes. And hajat kami tercapai!

We had fun. We ride the bumper cars. M tried to shoot for the RC helicopters tapi tak kena. We threw darts, dapat torch light kecik. M tried another game to win another RC heli, pon tak kena. Then we happily balik with our small torchlight :D
We cannot plan things. M especially is too busy. So we are counting on adhoc plans laidis.:|

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Eventho we are only 1 year old, orang tua kata baru setahun jagung. tak paham kenapa jagung yang diperkatakan di sini :| but we have shared a lot. Memang tak sebanyak orang yang dah 10 tahun kahwin, but hey we are not competing anyone here.

What I can say, what I have learn from my marriage :

Marriage is about sharing. We share everything with our partner. Masa sedih masa gembira masa ape2 je. The feeling to be able to share things with someone else tu, you won't feel lonely. And loved. Because the things you shared can be very very personal, which cannot be shared with friends or even family members. The fact that I have a person that I can share anything with, makes me feel good inside.

And I feel safe. Because I know, I have someone I can look up to when I don't feel secure.
Bila masak, rasa best sebab I am cooking for someone I love. When I do the house chores, do the laundry, I know I am doing for someone yang in the end, I get lots and lots of pahala for doing so.
I am grateful because I am marrying my husband. So far, he has been the sweetest, greatest, most gentle person a husband could have Hehe. Of course he is not perfect, he has his bad days tapi we are not malaikat. Chill la. He always ALWAYS makes me feel comfort. He really respects my family. He always say that he will try to be the best, and he definitely keep his words. He will make sure that his wife is all right ALL the time. I always pray that I don't take him for granted. Amin ya Rabb.

1 thing that I find it attractive about him is how passionate he is towards engineering. He has this heavy tool box that he carries around. Whatever things broken in the house, he fixed em. Yesterday. he changed my car battery. The other day he tried to fix my phone, but got frustrated as he can't do anything about it after trying to fix it the whole day. So he promised to get better projects to get me a new phone. Sweet x? :D
Oh well, macam ni la kami. Kais pagi makan pagi :|

I am happy with my man. I hope that we will still be forever happy together till Jannah.

Meh belanje sikit gambar2 kawin kami :D

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